TY - JOUR
T1 - The "How" and "Why" of Flirtatious Communication Between Marital Partners
AU - Frisby, Brandi N.
AU - Booth-Butterfield, Melanie
PY - 2012/9
Y1 - 2012/9
N2 - Flirtatious communication between spouses is an understudied, yet important, phenomenon which may differentiate which marriages will persevere. Flirting with a spouse potentially derives positive benefits for each partner and for the relationship. The researchers in this study examined marital partners' flirtatious behaviors, flirtatious motivations, relational maintenance, commitment, and satisfaction. Married participants (N = 164), whose mean age was 36.29, reported that flirting was motivated by a desire for sexual activity and the desire to create a private world with the spouse. Women engaged in maintenance behaviors and attentive flirting more than men. Assurances were a positive predictor of both satisfaction and commitment. Conflict management was a negative predictor of commitment, and esteem motivations were a negative predictor of satisfaction. Overall, flirting appeared to operate similarly to maintenance communication in marital couples.
AB - Flirtatious communication between spouses is an understudied, yet important, phenomenon which may differentiate which marriages will persevere. Flirting with a spouse potentially derives positive benefits for each partner and for the relationship. The researchers in this study examined marital partners' flirtatious behaviors, flirtatious motivations, relational maintenance, commitment, and satisfaction. Married participants (N = 164), whose mean age was 36.29, reported that flirting was motivated by a desire for sexual activity and the desire to create a private world with the spouse. Women engaged in maintenance behaviors and attentive flirting more than men. Assurances were a positive predictor of both satisfaction and commitment. Conflict management was a negative predictor of commitment, and esteem motivations were a negative predictor of satisfaction. Overall, flirting appeared to operate similarly to maintenance communication in marital couples.
KW - Flirting
KW - Maintenance
KW - Marriage
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U2 - 10.1080/01463373.2012.704568
DO - 10.1080/01463373.2012.704568
M3 - Article
AN - SCOPUS:84866338286
SN - 0146-3373
VL - 60
SP - 465
EP - 480
JO - Communication Quarterly
JF - Communication Quarterly
IS - 4
ER -